She was married and people could get hurt — not least her eight-year-old son, Jake. We made each other feel special, and it was as though I’d been waiting for someone like her all my life.
Some guys may not admit publicly that they are highly unlikely to marry a woman with a child (not everyone is Joseph who married a pregnant Mary) even though they may have a child themselves. Now, before you chew my head off, I know that there are some guys who have married women who have children with another man - sometimes women with children not from just one man. The ego wants what it wants in whatever way it wants it. But this raises a fundamental issue in our society.Interestingly, women will marry a guy with as many children from as different women as Steve Hofmeyr. First of all, you have the issue of children growing up without fathers because they are unwilling to take responsibility for the children they were very actively involved in making. Men and women must stop thinking about temporary pleasure.Be practical about the arrangement and don't allow your feelings to run amok.If you are unlucky and get caught having this illegitimate affair, be prepared to be at the receiving end of the husband's wrath.The upside of such a relationship is that you are with an experienced, matured and (most of the times) financially independent woman; the downside however can be depressing and emotionally draining.
Read up to know about the Downside of Dating a Married Woman.The risk you run of falling for her tears and thus developing feelings for this ‘damsel in distress' are high.Keep your head on your shoulders and do not fall victim to such emotional manipulation.A married woman will put her kids and family social commitments before you.She will attend to her kids and be by her husband's side for social gatherings even if it means leaving you in a lurch.Always wears a condom to protect yourself from contracting STDs.